Thursday, November 19, 2009

Expectations...and only expectations huh!


A parent expects his/her child to be the most perfect human being in the whole world....
A teacher expects his /her students to excel in all fields...
A husband expects his wife to be the most beautiful and caring
A wife expects her husband to be more generous, kind and more lovable :P

Ahh! I might be wrong ...and the expectations might be different..but don't you think we all expect a lot from others?

Don't you think that is a kind of dependency?

Don't you think life would have been much more easier if we expected less from others?

I have often felt that one of the main reasons of sadness is expecting a lot...

Love..which mysteriously connects two people..gets ruined due to expectations...

~~* A few days ago...one of my friends...did something that left me shocked...I am shocked even now..I Iexpected her to be doing well in studies..but..ahhh!!..that made me realize....I really expected too much..what right do I have..yes I am a friend.. and friends shouldn't have expectations from each other i think.... 
Friendship is the most precious relationship on this Earth..I value it so much....

Expectations do ruin it...yes I've experienced it....

Be happy be cool...do not expect too much even if u r a fool :P hey I rhymed it that on a funny note though :P


Sealed with a kiss by Nandini !

3 comments:

Dr. Baljeet Arya said...

Nanu.Tu umar me chhoti hai par bahut sochti hai :)Expectations are part and parcel of life. the best one can do is to minimize expectations. par shayad maza nahi aayega. isliye jo ho raha hai usi ko lightly lo hamesha life will be easier and Living with less expectations from others but at the same time, giving to others without expecting more back...would indeed make life a lot happier and easier.
But at some point, we all, as ordinary humans can't live without little expectations...
All we can do is, try and not to expect too much :)

love you much :)

Dad !

anjali singh said...

Expectations are the cause of disappointments..
But, sometimes we do expect even if we don't want.. it's normal and natural..
But, purposefully expecting nothing always does you good.
:)

jeff nastick said...

You are absolutely right! Wives, even when they were girl friends expect those mussy stuff you know :D


I always expect the worst from a person so that if the person turns out to be good then its a bonus